I feel like the root of every problem is understanding. WE judge because we don't understand. WE judge because the way we see an idea or feeling, we want others to see, feel, follow through with, no matter what the cost. No matter the person, at some point in this life, I sincerely believe that every person existing or has had existed at one stage, has had some good in them.
It's natural to recognise that we have a bad side, everybody does. Embracing that you are not a perfect person, and like everybody else you have flaws. You might feel like you're on your own with this, that other people can't possibly feel the way you feel. But they do, they can & they will. People will pretend they don't feel alone, self conscious, undermined in their talents, not accepted - they will do their hardest to hide it because all they want to do is fit in, but at the end of the day if we could just understand that we aren't alone with human feelings, we would be at more peace with our flaws.
Your body is the house you grew up in, the garden that you chose to let flourish wildly or chop down, however you pleased to let it thrive, but why try tear to the ground?
It's whether we act upon these negative traits to let us become the people we know that we are not, is where the root of all evil lies.
Also, one of my true inspirations for a while has been Sophia's blog. It's simple, classy and makes you want more.